Thursday, August 20, 2009

Dreams Decoded: Do We Experience Our Past Lives While We Sleep?

     Ah, to dream.  We have come to associate dreaming with bliss, or in the achieving of the ultimate escape.  Or, perhaps what comes to mind is the plotting of a brighter future or a different reality, as we "dream" a wish that we would like to see fulfilled.  Dreams are an integral part of the human experience, and studies have shown that animals, and therefore perhaps even all beings, dream.  But, what are dreams?  Why do we have them?  And, most mysterious of all, what the heck do they mean?
     Most of us can recall at least one dream that made us go hmm.  Even for those of you who are lucky enough to achieve a deep enough sleep state that you don't often remember your dreams (a state that I haven't experienced since I had kids) will occasionally have one that will be so powerful that it makes you sit bolt upright in bed at 3 am.  Science has shown through the study of brainwaves that we dream several times a night even if we don't wake enough to remember them.  Quite puzzling, don't you think?
     So, where do these dreams come from?  The simple answer here is that they are manifestations of material directly from our subconscious minds.  Our subconscious is a generic way to refer to the large percentage of our minds that we don't utilize on a daily basis (the 10 or so percent that we do use is what we generally call our conscious minds, minus the parts that dictate our primal urges and body functions).  You don't have to be a mathematician to figure that 90% can contain a whole lot of "stuff".  I also believe that the subconscious could even represent our untapped potential as human beings and contains forgotten memories (including past life memories), unrealized psychic abilities such as telepathy, and spiritual knowledge about the universe that we cannot possibly comprehend with our dinky 10% brains.  I might have also just explained why our dreams can be so weird.
     I love people's dream stories.  They tell me so much about themselves in a short, concise, and quite entertaining way.  As they recount the details of their most recent recurring dream, most people laugh and warn me that their story is ridiculous and that I am going to think that they are a little bit "nuts".  Dreams are hodge-podge mixes of memories, desires, fears, and premonitions that piece together to form a veritable quilt that represents the whole of the subconscious.  So, of course if you retell a dream as if you were recounting a conscious mind story it can sound like a real whacked out adventure, like that you are running down a corridor with two heads chasing your ex-boyfriend who suddenly looks like Imelda Marcos (yes, a real one of mine).  But why are we dreaming these "stories"?
     We dream because our "inner selves" (a term that I use to acknowledge the spiritual connotations of our subconscious minds) are trying to tell us something.  This is an important part of our drive to evolve, meaning that subconsciously we want to learn and grow.  Dreams are a gift, as we are being given a small piece of our inner self that we are meant to chew on, digest and thus integrate into our conscious minds.  When we dream, we are quite literally being shown the truth as according to our older, wiser, inner, spiritual self.  I learned an important truth about myself from having the above named Imelda dream, and it aided me in more consciously making a decision that has proven invaluable in my life.
     So, what do dreams have to do with past lives and hypnosis?  Aside from being a self-professed dream expert from having had some real doozies myself (and maybe even from my own past lives as an astrologer who interpreted dreams a very long time ago and as a Jungian psychologist not so long ago) there is a very important connection between dreams and hypnosis and dreams and past lives.  The simplest way to explain this is that we most often will experience hypnosis much like we dream, and that our dreams will often contain material that are past life memories.  These experiences all deal with the act of tapping into the subconscious, and are therefore inextricably linked.
     People often wonder what the experience of hypnosis will be like, and there are a whole slew of misconceptions about it in popular culture.  The best way I have found to describe it to someone who has not experienced it is to compare it to having a lucid dream.  A lucid dream is one of those dreams in which you aren't really asleep, and you aren't really awake, but yet you are aware that you are having a dream.  Most of us can even make decisions during a lucid dream, and they tend to be vivid, memorable, and multi-sensory.  This is very much what hypnosis is like; only during hypnosis you achieve that hyper relaxed and very receptive state on purpose.  There is an obvious association with frequent lucid dreamers (and also those who talk and walk in their sleep) and those who have a high hypnotic capacity.
     When I meet with someone for the first time, I will spend a good deal of the first part of the session questioning a person about his or her dreams.  This ends up being a bit of a short cut for me, as I can act as a more efficient guide during a past life regression if I already know how they experience their dreams.  I will ask someone if they "see" their dreams in vivid detail, or if they just sense them.  I want to know if they hear noises or voices, and also what perspective they usually experience their dreams from (if they are watching it from above or inside their own body).  The vast majority of the time, with some inevitable exceptions, you will experience hypnosis like you dream.  (See my previous blog "Psychic Phenomena" for more detail on "ways of seeing").  Why is it the same?  Because it comes from the same place, the subconscious mind is the source of your dreams as well as the place that you actively access when you are under hypnosis.
     So then, how can you tell if your dream contains a past life memory?  There are several clues, the most obvious being the details around you in your dreamscape.  If you are driving a horse and buggy rather than your trusty 2003 Ford Escort, you may possibly be experiencing a past life.  Ditto for old-fashioned clothing styles, landscape and terrain that are unfamiliar in this life, and structures or objects that are not modern.  Perhaps you even have enough awareness of yourself in your dream to know that you are a different gender or ethnicity than you are currently, which would certainly be a hallmark of a possible past life dream.
     In my opinion, the largest indicator that you might be "dreaming your memories" lies in the emotions that you feel while you are experiencing the dream.  This is not to say that all dreams are not emotional, because they certainly are.  Our dreams draw out raw and real feelings for us in order to make us pay attention to them, and so that we are able to reference them later by way of our library of emotions that we have all managed to amass simply by being human.  But, a memory has a very specific emotional quality to it that will stand out if you take the time to give it some thought.
     Whether our dreams contain a past life memory or not, the important thing to focus on is what they mean to us.  As I mentioned earlier, they are a direct line into our inner selves and tend to be related to events or themes that are happening (or are about to happen) in our current lives.  They emerge to educate us about a truth that we cannot see, help us to make more conscious decisions, and resolve our various issues in a better and more loving way.  This is exactly the same purpose that a past life regression serves in our lives, as well as deep meditation and contemplation.  To probe around in our inner minds is to become more self aware, and therefore more enlightened beings.  Our dreams can be an amazing tool in this process.
     So, how can we know what our dreams mean?  They usually end up being a twisted jumble of memory, symbolism and something that you may have seen on television right before you fell asleep.  Although there are many wonderful books on dream symbolism, and experts that you can consult, at the end of the day it is you and only you who can accurately interpret your dreams.  This is because the material contained in dreams is supremely personal, and is distributed through your own, unique filter through which you perceive the world.
     Your dreams are literally you relaying a message to you.  A symbol book might tell you that the color black means something bad or ominous, but you might love black so much that you wear nothing else.  In that case, the appearance of the color black in your dream might represent you and not that something terrible is about to happen.  It didn't take me too long to figure out that my two heads in the Imelda dream didn't mean that I literally had them, but that they represented two different and opposing sides of myself.
     I encourage each of you to begin keeping a notebook beside your bed at night, as writing your dreams down when they are fresh will aid in your ability to recall them in the morning after you have, hopefully, returned to a state of restful sleep after the dream.  This act will help set a powerful intention that the dreams will come and aid us as we work hard to traverse life and the myriad of challenges that come with it.  As you practice this, you will become your own dream expert as you learn more about yourself and the workings of your inner mind.  You will naturally become aware of your past lives and how they relate to your life today, as well as tune into your own prophetic powers as you wade through the symbolism to uncover your own possible future.  So now, sleep well and dream, as you never know what you might discover about yourself tonight.   

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Psychic Phenomena: Paranormal and Supernatural, or Quite Normal and Very Natural?

Psychic.  A term that relates to crystal balls, tarot cards, and the ability to tell the future, right?  What are psychic abilities?  How do they work?  What is it that makes someone psychic?  And, most importantly, how can we know if we are psychic?
Our current western culture has managed to label that which we might refer to as psychic phenomena as "supernatural" or "paranormal" abilities.  The term "supernatural" is defined as something that is not of the natural world, and is derived from the Latin supra (above) natura (nature).  "Paranormal" is a term that we generally use to describe something that cannot be explained, and the beginning of this word comes from the Greek para (beyond) normal.  These terms are more than a little puzzling to me, as how could such a widely reported ability in some human beings be above nature?  Aren't we a part of nature?  And, what is normal anyway, that something should exist beyond it?
In actuality, the term psychic comes from the Greek word psychikos, which means "of the soul".  This is the same root of the words psyche, psyched, psychology and psychoanalysis, all of which have to do with different states of the mind.  This is because the Greeks, as well as the majority of other ancient cultures, held a belief that the mind and the soul were one and the same (and any problem with the mind required healing of the spirit).  Therefore, the actual definition of psychic is "that which comes from the soul and the mind".  That sounds pretty darn natural to me.
So where did an ability that comes from the "soul and the mind" get this paranormal, supernatural reputation from?  Looking at the past, and understanding this phenomenon from a historical perspective can help us to find the answer to that question.  Psychic abilities, and their use for various purposes, have been around since ancient times.  In fact, the use of psychic abilities by human beings has occurred and been recorded in nearly every culture on the planet, both ancient and modern.  The unsavory reputation of psychic abilities, though, developed in the western world as a direct result of the political, religious and social changes that occurred after the advent of Christianity.
One of the most famous examples of an ancient world psychic is the Oracle at Delphi, located at the Temple of Apollo on Mount Parnassus in Greece.  Visitors to the Oracle would encounter the Pythia, who was the head priestess there, and would be invited to engage in a question and answer session with her that would result in a prophecy.  This infamous Oracle was in operation for nearly 1200 years (take that, Miss Cleo!), beginning in the 8th c. BC and only ending in 393 AD when the Christian Emperor Theodosius I ordered all pagan temples to close.  This Oracle, and the prophecies that came from it, were considered highly prestigious during this time period and was mentioned extensively by writers such as Plutarch, Ovid, Sophocles, Plato and Aristotle, to just name a few.  Archeologists now believe that the Oracle was located on a volcanic fissure, and the Pythia was giving these prophecies in an altered state of consciousness induced by inhaling the resulting gas emission.  (Don't try that one at home.)
So, if psychic abilities have been around since ancient times, why do so many of us in this day and age feel that they are not normal and unnatural?  I think that it has stemmed from the perception that some of us have "powers" that others do not, and the natural fear that would result from that belief.  This concept became the fundamental problem with the use of psychics and Christianity, as church authorities began to fear that these "powers" were from an innately evil and/or supernatural source.
This bad rap did not, however, cause the practice of consulting psychics to disappear and it is well known that many devout Christian monarchs and other figures throughout history consulted astrologers and seers.  One example of this can be found in the relationship between Catherine de Medici and the famous seer Nostradamus, whom she consulted regularly about her troubling dreams despite the fact that her country was engaged in a bloody religious war during the height of the Spanish Inquisition.  But yet, the fear due to a lack of understanding about where these abilities come from and why some have more than others has permeated all of western history.
Why then, did the act of consulting psychics never disappear despite this rampant fear and resultant persecution?  It managed to survive as a practice because the abilities themselves never disappeared, and human beings have continually displayed the capabilities of knowing or seeing that which exists outside of the tangible, physical realm.  I truly believe that these abilities are innately human (of the soul and of the mind, remember?) and that we all possess psychic abilities in one form or another.  Before you decide to disagree, hear me out on this.
If you ask them (and I do), most people will own up to having had an experience that can be called psychic.  In fact, we do regularly use these abilities without bothering to label them as "psychic".  Having a gut feeling about someone that ended up being right, having a dream actually happen in the way that you dreamed that it would, having a presentiment of a tragedy (or even a bad feeling about something about to happen), thinking of a person two seconds before they call, being able to hear or feel someone else's feelings, having a dream or vision of someone who has died, meeting someone for the first time and experiencing a deja vu sensation (in my opinion, this is more than likely from a past life), or having sensed something or someone in the room with you when you were alone are all psychic experiences.  Most of my clients are pleasantly surprised when I help them discover that they are indeed psychic, and have been all along despite the fact that they have never considered themselves to be.  
It is true that there are some of us who seem to have a natural talent in this arena, and have psychic abilities that operate on a much higher level than the average person.  There seem to be several factors that could possibly contribute to a person's level of psychic-ness, including heredity (for some reason more often occurring on the mother's side), a traumatic event or an accident, becoming a victim of extreme violence, having a near death (or even clinical death) experience, or even a significant and/or sudden transcendental or spiritual experience.  For those of us who are not inherently psychically talented, there are several ways that have been proven to help develop these abilities.  (More on this later.)  All of these factors seem to somehow contribute to a person's level of psychic ability, but some people for some unknown reason are simply born more psychic than the rest of us.
So then, what are these abilities and how do they work?  There are many different ways in which psychic abilities manifest in an individual, but first we need to revisit our definition of psychic to further clarify and figure out exactly what it is that we are talking about here.  Psychic is "that which comes from the soul and the mind", but what is it?  The what, then involving psychic abilities has to do with perception using senses outside of the physical five that we use with our bodies:  sight, touch, sound, smell and taste.  We are talking about our "extra-senses". 
We are quite familiar with our physical five senses, and are even taught their names and practice using them in preschool.  In fact, you are more than likely using more than one of them at this very moment (assuming you are all using at least your sense of sight to facilitate your reading).  But, what most of us do not know is that we all possess additional senses to the familiar five we use every minute of every day.  These are our "extra-senses" (and it is interesting to note that ESP, which refers to a particular use of a psychic ability, stands for extra-sensory perception- so technically all psychic perception is ESP) and they are the ways that we perceive the sensory information that is not physical in nature (that of the soul and the mind), or psychic information.
The first of these extra senses is called clairvoyance, or clear seeing.  This is our spiritual "sight" and those who have well developed clairvoyant abilities can "see" visions, pictures, symbols, colors, etc. in their mind's eye (sometimes referred to as the "third eye", which is located on your lower forehead at the center point between both eyebrows).  These vivid images flow into the mind of a clairvoyant, where they are interpreted based on what has been seen.
The next extra sense is called clairaudience, or clear hearing.  Those who can use this sense can hear voices, sounds and other noises that cannot be perceived using the physical ear.  Clairaudients hear things that do not seem to physically be there and this sense is most commonly associated with mediums, or a psychic who can communicate with the dead.
Next, there is clairsentience, or clear knowing.  This sense involves an ability to 'just know' and is truly difficult to clearly define.  Clairsentient people can have something appear in their mind in the form of a thought, or they will just know something without really knowing where it came from.  Clairsentience is also associated with an extra sense of touch, in that there are physical sensations such as hot or cold, etc. that come from non-physical sources that can be perceived by someone who can use this sense.
The fourth type of extra sense is called clairgustance, or clear taste.  This is an ability to taste something in your mouth or on your tongue that cannot be traced to a source in the physical world.  This seems to be somewhat of a rare occurring extra sense.  (I think that I would find this one rather strange if I were to experience it, and so far have not.)
The fifth extra sense is called clairalience, or clear smelling.  This is the ability to smell things that are not physically there and it also seems to be strongly associated with mediums, but it can be present in anyone.  (All mediums are psychics, but not all psychics are mediums- medium refers to the "middle" and therefore a medium is literally a "middle man/woman" to the spirit world.)
The sixth and last extra sense that I will describe is referred to as psychokinetic abilities.  (There are probably more than six, but these are the ones that I am most familiar with.)  Those with psychokinetic abilities can move or otherwise alter objects by using their minds.  This sense also seems to be quite rare, and many doubt how genuine this one actually is despite reports of its' occurrence throughout history.
Most people will use more than one of these senses when accessing psychic information, and the way that these senses combine will create a personal "way of seeing" and it is as individual as a fingerprint.  In the same way that some of us have a heightened sense of smell, or a sharp eye for detail, these extra senses vary from person to person.  No two people will experience this information in exactly the same way, just like no one will see, touch and smell a flower and experience it identically to someone else.
So, if we do have these "extra senses", what do we do with them?  How do these abilities work in a practical way, and how can they be useful to us?  There is quite a lot of information that can be gained through the use of these senses, and perceiving things that occur on a non-physical level can provide insight into the fact that there might be quite a lot more to our existence than meets the eye (the physical eye, pun intended).  Although psychics can do many things with their contact with the "soul and the mind", such as communicating with spirits, reading auras, and interpreting dreams, it is the ability to foretell the future that holds our collective abiding interest in psychic abilities.
How can someone tell the future?  Isn't the future something that hasn't happened yet?  Yes, technically the future has yet to occur, but we need to establish what type of relationship the future has with time and the nature of the movement of time itself.  I believe that time moves less like an arrow, or a straight line, and more like a circle.  This was the belief of many ancient and indigenous cultures, and is the basis for the famous Mayan calendar (which has managed to correctly predict many events that occurred centuries after its' development).  If this is true then, and time moves like a circle, then that would mean that the past, present and future are all happening simultaneously.  So, maybe psychics are simply tapping into an alternate reality that exists around us in which everything that has ever or will ever happen is occurring all at the same time, but we don't usually perceive this with our limited physical senses.  Yeah, this is some pretty deep stuff.  (I have discussed the possibility of this concept in previous articles.)
One way that psychics have historically "told the future" is through a process called divination.   Divination is the act of making a prophecy about the future by using an object, a ritual or a process of some sort.  Basically, it is using a prop to aid the flow of information, and I have been told that these objects are merely a way to increase a person's focus during this process.  There are many different types of divination including:  astrology (using the stars and planets), palmistry (reading palms), numerology (using numbers), onomancy (using names), chronomancy (using time, lucky/unlucky days), cartomancy (using cards, i.e. tarot cards), pyromancy (using fire), extispicy (using the entrails of animals), I Ching and Runes (the use of these objects), and scrying (the use of a reflective object).
I Ching (or "book of changes") is a book that contains a system of symbols designed to find order in seemingly random events.  It was written around 2800 BC (almost 350 years earlier than the construction of Khufu's Great Pyramid at Giza) by a legendary Chinese emperor named Fu Xi.  The book is divided into 64 hexagrams that each describe a predicted outcome or a prescribed course of action.  One would pose a question for the I Ching and then throw 3 coins six times, and recording the results:  a solid line for each roll that was predominantly 'heads' and a dotted line for each roll that was predominantly 'tails'.  After all six rolls, the result would be one of these 64 solid and dotted line patterns, or hexagrams.  Upon locating the corresponding hexagram in the text, the questioner would them read the poem next to it that contained the "prophecy".  The I Ching is still widely used both in China and around the world, and even after 5,000 years is still considered highly accurate and relevant.
The form of divination known as scrying is the source of our crystal ball stereotype.  A shiny and reflective surface is used to see (clairvoyantly) a vision of the future, and this method has been around since ancient times.  Other types of scrying involve mirrors (as in the well-known example from Snow White: "mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?"- the wicked stepmother in that fairytale was a scryer), glass, crystals, smoke, or water.  The seer Nostradamus was also a scryer, as he used a bowl of water to see his visions of the future.
Some psychics use their abilities without the use of props, and will tap into psychic information by using ritual or other means of altering their consciousness.  Doing this will turn down the volume on their physical senses and will help the "extra-senses" to emerge.  This altering of consciousness usually involves relaxing, shifting focus, meditating, deep breathing, etc.  Edgar Cayce, who would lie on his couch and go into a deep trance from which he would deliver his predictions, is a great example of someone who employed this technique.  Supposedly, one had a window of only a few seconds in which to pose him a question before he would go under too deeply and then proceed to drift off to sleep.  My personal favorite story about this phenomenon concerns Jane Roberts, the well-known author of the psychically channeled "Seth Material" books.  In order to achieve the relaxed and altered state that she used to connect with "Seth", a disembodied spirit who would deliver the material for her books, she would first have one beer and two cigarettes before going into a trance.  (I am not entirely sure why, but I find her technique somewhat hilarious, given the incredibly profound nature of the resultant material.)  But, that was her particular way of relaxing.
This altering of consciousness technique to tap into our "soul and our mind" has been an important part of spiritual and religious ritual since the dawn of time.  The hypnotic rhythm of a beating drum, swaying back and forth in time with a chant or a prayer, humming, and chanting are all powerful methods of initiating this connection with our "extra senses".  The first time that I ever saw an aura around another human being happened in the middle of a spin class, and I was cycling hard enough that I went into a "zone" that anyone who has ever engaged in an athletic activity can relate to.  That, coupled with the hypnotic noise of the bikes and the low light, my mind was in an altered and perceptive state that allowed me to "see" this.  (I have since learned to replicate this outside of the gym.)  The fact that this phenomenon occurs more frequently in a relaxed and altered state is the reason that so many people will have psychic experiences while under hypnosis.
This ability to alter our consciousness (without drugs or other substances, mind you- although many cultures have traditionally used various plants and herbs ritually for this very purpose) varies from person to person and could quite possibly be a clue as to why some of us are more psychic than others.  Is it as simple as that?  Some people can just "zone out" easier than others?  Well, not quite.  There are some aspects of receiving any "extra-sense" material that are somewhat difficult to place, and many aspects of this phenomenon are definitely in the category of unexplainable given my current limited knowledge on the subject.  But, there do seem to be some controllable factors that might contribute to a person's level of psychic ability.
For those of us who were not born with innate psychic gifts, there are ways that we can develop them.  In fact, I have been told that even world famous and renowned psychics must constantly work to maintain and develop their abilities.  Many working psychics meditate daily, or have a regular spiritual practice that serves to aid their ability to alter their consciousness and tap into their "true selves", or their spiritual selves.  Regular meditation and contemplation seem to help in the development of psychic abilities, and there is also a heavy correlation between people who spend a great deal of time in nature and the ability to use their "extra senses".  It isn't much of a stretch to imagine that avid meditators and nature lovers are more in touch with their "soul and the mind".
There also seems to be a correlation between psychic abilities and the state of our physical bodies, specifically our care and regard for them.  Eating healthy food, engaging in regular exercise, limiting the consumption of alcohol, tobacco and illicit drugs also seem to aid in the ability to mentally focus and tap into these "extra senses".  This does vary from person to person, and everyone is different and our bodies are individually unique.  I have heard some psychics tell me that consuming red meat will block their abilities, while others have told me that they eat meat regularly with no noticeable change.  Some medications have been known to prevent the flow of psychic information, and most psychics say that they have more difficulty tapping in when they are experiencing a physical illness.
The third way that one can develop their ability to utilize their "extra senses" comes through the practice of compassion and loving-kindness.  That's right, being nice can actually make you more psychic.  People who are able to be compassionate and truly connect with others are able to tap into this spiritual realm more readily.  This is especially true when you are dealing with another person one on one.  Many working psychics employ this technique by focusing on your voice, or your energy and also focus on their intent for your well-being (and if a psychic doesn't have your well-being in mind, then you shouldn't listen to them anyway!).  I often utilize this technique in my one on one work with my clients, in addition to the other techniques that I have found to work well for me individually over time.
But why should we work so hard to develop our own abilities when we can just consult someone else who is more naturally talented at it then we are?  It's true; we can get information about our future or receive loving messages from our deceased relatives from someone else.  But, this other person will be delivering it to you second hand.  If you do choose to consult a psychic, you must make sure that it is a person of a high moral caliber (and again, cares for your well-being!).  This is because we are dealing with another human being who cannot help but deliver the information to you through the filter of their own existence.  It can be often difficult to navigate what information belongs to you and what is rightfully someone else's.  Always trust your intuition when you are choosing someone to work with in this way.  (Yes, I did just tell you to be psychic when choosing your psychic.)
Besides, why should we rely on information that we got from someone else, when we all own these "extra senses" ourselves?  We dream, get gut feelings, can sense things, and so why not learn more about how they work so that we can "see" our own future?  How differently would we live our lives on a daily basis if we could all use and rely on our "extra senses"?  One world-renowned psychic once said that the biggest difference between him and everyone else is that he trusts himself and the information he receives.  This trust is something that happens over time, as we get validation on our information and learn how to recognize the hallmarks of our own, unique "way of seeing".  I believe that this use of our "extra senses" could be a part of a new phase in human evolution that would, in the future, require us to redefine the parameters of our own true potential.
So, does the fact that we can see or know things about it mean that our future is determined?  No way.  Now we are into the territory of destiny (which is a whole other topic for another day), but suffice it to say that we are constantly making choices that directly determine our own future every minute of every day.  What any psychic is seeing is a possible (or perhaps even a probable) future.  Any kind of prediction or prophecy, whether it comes from someone else or directly from you, should be viewed as potential insight into the current choices that we are making in our lives.  Some premonitory dreams are meant to be warnings to make changes by showing you a possible future with disastrous results.  Other times, we can see visions of our own future that can represent our highest potential, and are meant to inspire positive changes in order to help us find a path in life that will lead to that possible future.
Unlike some abilities which require you to "use it or lose it", your own, unique psychic way of seeing is there, patiently waiting to be acknowledged and discovered.  But, in order to use these "extra senses" to the best of our ability, we must first take a leap of faith in ourselves and begin to trust the information that we are receiving.  Trusting ourselves is often the most difficult thing to do, and often we will take another person's word for it before we will believe in our own innate psychic abilities.  As we work to understand our own, unique way of accessing "our soul and our mind" we can also begin to unlock our true potential as human beings.  Why not use all of the tools available to us as we struggle down this often rocky and always complicated road that we call life?  To me, this is the most natural and normal thing that we can possibly ever do.  How do I know this?  Well, I just do.